April 21, 2010
Signs Of A Cheating Spouse! Look here!
Signs Of A Cheating Spouse
Are you looking for signs of a cheating spouse? Read on! There comes a time in everyone's marriage when the question of your spouse being faithful to their wedding vows. If you’re not sure what to look for, here are some hints. A yes to multiples of these actions might be an indication that someone’s clothes need to be out on the front lawn.
Working Late: One of the oldest and most used excuses for not being home is “working late”. If your spouse is suddenly working late, no advancement prospects and no extra money in the paycheck, they just might be working on “something else”. If this is happening to you why not try showing up at the office with dinner. They will either be compromised or you will realize that you have nothing to worry about.
The sudden business trip can be a very bad sign. A tryst is much easier to accomplish out of town, away from the prying eyes of your friends. If you think there might be more than conferences and sales pitches going on, call your husband/wife. And if you have a set time that you're supposed to call them, either call early or late. This way if everything is not as it should be, you may hear it in their voice.
Becoming Distant: If your partner starts to withhold himself or herself either physically or emotionally, there is something really wrong. This in itself isn’t proof but is a signal that there is someone else meeting his or her needs. If you find this happening what you need to do is sit down with them and have a long and frank discussion about your relationship. This will set the expectations of what the needs fulfillment are in order to allow both of you to meet each others needs.
Unexpected phone calls, blank calls and increase in number of mobile calls are all often signs of cheating spouses. No decent person will ring after 9pm. So if it happends, even early morning, become aware. You can expect blank calls, marketing calls and late night calls once in a while, not three times a week.
Also watch what they are doing on the internet, on their email. If they try to hide things from you, even from joint accounts and make everything password protected, you must question and probe more into the matter. There is plenty of spyware and keystroke monitor to track all his internet activities. No harm in being extra cautious, always helps.
Secret E-mail: You and your partner should have an open relationship. If the e-mail that they just received gets slammed shut when you walk by, there just might be a real problem. If you are really concerned you can install spyware or a keystroke monitor on the computer. There is a downside to this, if what you install is discovered you could be in real trouble if they are innocent.
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